Today is Thursday, so this post is on communication skills.
Recently, I came across an interesting book entitled How to Communicate Workbook: Powerful Strategies for Effective Communication at Work and Home by Martha Davis, Kim Paleg and Patrick Fanning. This book is a great primer for anyone interested in improving his or her communication skills. The How to Communicate Workbook is divided into three sections and 17 chapters. The sections are:
- Laying the Groundwork for Effective Communication
- Handling Difficult Conversations and Situations
- Out in the World: Friends, Family and Work
In addition to solid content and communication advice, the 17 chapters contain real life examples and worksheets to help you become a better communicator. For example, Chapter 1, Listening provides a list of reasons for what they authors describe as “motivations for pseudo listening” at work:
- Wanting to be liked
- Checking for signs of rejection
- Searching for a specific piece of information
- Preparing your response
- Listening so you will be listened to
- Listening for weak points, gathering ammunition
- Checking to see if you’ve achieved the right effect
- Trying to be “good” or “nice”
- Not knowing how to leave without offending
They follow this up with a list of the twelve most common blocks to effective listening:
- Comparing
- Mind Reading
- Rehearsing
- Filtering
- Judging
- Dreaming
- Identifying
- Advising
- Sparring
- Being right
- Derailing
- Placating
They define each of these blocks and then offer case study exercises to help you identify the listening blocks in a real life situation.
Each of the chapters follows a similar pattern.
This workbook will be helpful for anyone interested in becoming a better communicator. It presents a nuts and bolts approach to helping you develop your communication skills. I think that you’ll find it to be a good reference book that you’ll want to keep on your office library shelf.
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Bud
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